FAM(ILY): 'Fam, I Love You'

FAM(ILY), an acronym for 'Fam, I Love you' is a saying that's common in every language and culture on earth. Family is not exclusive to blood bonds and is often times made up of chosen people who have showed love and support without obligation. Pure Love.

FAM(ILY): 'Fam, I Love You' explores the importance of family and human connection we all share. This collection of photos tells a story of the strength and importance of community healing, support systems and the bonds shared through grief, they also showcase the similarities and differences of how human's mourn and celebrate life across countries and cultures. When these unfortunate circumstances bring us together, it’s usually a bittersweet family reunion; although the reason is somber, we come together to celebrate the life of the deceased and re-strengthen the bonds of human connection. Grief is a part of the human experience and despite our personal, cultural and or economic differences, Fam(ILY) serves as a reminder of how precious life is and how one person can impact many. We laugh, we eat, we dance, we cry over shared memories and vow to not let so much time pass before seeing each other again, and then we disperse, somehow feeling hopeful despite the grim circumstances which brought us all together in the first place. The goal for 'Fam, I Love You' is to encourage the viewer to reflect on how we show up for one another, for the sake of ourselves and the collective community of the Bermuda, during a time where we are plagued with gun violence, antisocial behavior amongst our young people and an increased number of road fatalities. These things I believe stem from a severe lack of value for life due to ongoing and glossed over social and economic issues that leaders and change makers of our community have yet to address in detail and implement meaningful and lasting resolutions for. This message is more of a call to action for all of us to care a bit more and move through this life with empathy and purpose. To remind us all that one person and their actions, good or bad, has the power to change the trajectory of lives separate from our own, encouraging us to move with intention. At the end of the day, all we have is each other and love from Family (chosen or blood) is needed, it's everlasting and is paramount in order to foster a better collective community for us all.

All Photos and Videos in this series are taken from funeral services of personal friends and family of the artist. The photos provided in this submission are from the services of Jan Martin, Osagi Bascome, and Charles Thomas.

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a makeshift 'monument' that wold typically be erected near the site of a road fatality. 'Critter' was a member of the Somerset community who died in single vehicle accident near this memorial.

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A display of memorial tags and T-shirt's, typically worn at the service of a deceased love one and later used as a visual memorial. They're typically hung on rearview mirrors in vehicles. This photo shows a group memorial of members of the 'Court Street' community in Bermuda who have passed on.

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Family of Jan Martin. During the Pandemic, many funerals had to be done outside due to Covid-19 restrictions for large gatherings.

© Jayde Gibbons - Small gathering of loved ones sharing food and lobations after the homegoing service of Jan Martin.
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Small gathering of loved ones sharing food and lobations after the homegoing service of Jan Martin.

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Mourners at the viewing of Osage Bascome. Women of the Ethiopian Orthodix Church typically cover their heads while in the temple.

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A viewing held at the Ethiopian Orthodox Church of Bermuda for the late Osagi Bascome of the St. Georges Community. Osagi was a famed Bermudian footballer who was murdered while trying to break up a fight.

© Jayde Gibbons - The mother of Osagi Bascome being supported by her sister and father at the casket of her youngest child.
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The mother of Osagi Bascome being supported by her sister and father at the casket of her youngest child.

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Members of the Bascome Family embracing after the funeral service of Osagi. Men of this faith typically cut their hair as a sign of profound mourning. The man to the far left of this frame being embraced by a woman in a white head covering is a brother of Osagi Bascome who cut off his full head of shoulder length locs, one of many family members who shaved their locs after his passing.

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Friends and members of Sports Teams Osagi Bascome was apart of, lining his casket on the way to the hearse. Osagis' coffin is lined with intricate Ceremonial Ethiopian Orthodox fabrics.

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Leaders of the Ethiopian Orthodox Church following the deceased to his hearse, adorned with ceremonial clothing and artefacts typically used during funerals.

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The burial of Osagi Bascome. Sounds at the burial site included ceremonial bells and funeral chants sang by leaders and members of the Ethiopian Orthodox church.

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Wake of Osagi Bascome held at St. Goerges Cricket club Bermuda, where he was apart of sports teams and an avid community member.

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Typical views from a 'wake/repass' of a loved one. There is typically a DJ with a heavy flow of libations in the form of alcohol.

© Jayde Gibbons - The grandaughter of Charles Thomas wearing a memorial T-shirt.
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The grandaughter of Charles Thomas wearing a memorial T-shirt.

© Jayde Gibbons - Family and friends at the burial of Charles Thomas.
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Family and friends at the burial of Charles Thomas.