Eros

Eros reflects on intimacy, love, and beauty through a personal archive. Blending found and personal images, it questions inherited imaginaries and uses photography to narrate identity and self representation.

Eros is a project that seeks to reflect on the narratives of intimacy and the ways in which we represent human bonds.

It stems from a personal archive built from postcards, internet printouts, book fragments, and a red stamp reading EROS, which I used to mark each image as if tracing signs of affection, beauty and love. Over time, Eros became a layered space where historical visual references and my own photographs coexist. I use personal experiences to explore certain questions about my own relationships and affections. Starting with a photograph I took of my parents holding hands, and a photograph of the lake where my moms ashes rest. I believe that from individual experience we can trace symptoms of social tensions that affect us collectively.

The project recognizes that social constructions around love, beauty, and relationships emerge from narratives shaped by both language and images, stories we inherit, repeat, and eventually reaffirm, reinforcing certain ideas, gestures, and canons of the affective and the aesthetic. 

Eros proposes rereading and challenging these imaginaries, revealing how intimacy, and also what we consider beautiful, is constructed, imagined, and transformed. It acts as a mirror with memory to see one self, and as my own story merges with the found images I am thinking of the self as a construction not as a result of someone else's desire, what's in between those two images of my parents holding hands and my moms ashes resting in the lake its my own story, identity and desire. 

I recognize that, as women, we have often been denied the right to name ourselves and our own stories. I want to address this, because even though some social changes are happening around this issue, it has never been easy, first, because it takes time to truly see oneself, and second, because it requires the courage to name it aloud. In my case, the archive became the door, the path that opened up countless questions about myself, allowing me to see more clearly that we are shaped not only by our choices but also by social tensions. I like to believe that building a personal archive can be liberating for all of us, an archive we can engage with, converse with, and use to negotiate the course of our own story, adding photographs and materials that allow it to evolve as a living writing exercise. As life itself.

This archive invited me to revisit the images that have shaped my ideas of love, affection, and beauty, exposing the persistence of certain models. By questioning these established representations, the project opens space for  photography and the archive to act as documents that can transform our narratives and our lives.

© Nathalie Guio - Image from the Eros photography project
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What is Eros? Eros is an archive that brings together a selection of historical, cultural, and personal images that have shaped my understanding of love, the body, and human relationships. It includes drawings by Leonardo da Vinci (The Vitruvian Man, Leda and the Swan), postcards from the Museum of Sex, representations of Adam and Eve, the cover of the book A General Theory of Love etc.

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The stage of life invites us to perform narratives that shape the self and an identity that is always in transformation. This identity is revealed in our encounters with others and in the dialogues we hold with ourselves, and it is nourished by both fictional and non-fiction references that allow us to embody characters, adopt gestures, and inhabit certain storylines.

© Nathalie Guio - My parents holding hands before my mom died.
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My parents holding hands before my mom died.

© Nathalie Guio - Her and my sister.
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Her and my sister.

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The archive started with a photograph I took of my parents holding hands, and a photograph of La Laguna de Tota, a lake where my moms ashes rest.

© Nathalie Guio - The camera is looking how I see myself.
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The camera is looking how I see myself.

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The body is the territory where our interactions with others originate; through contact, presence, and perception, the narratives we perform and the identities we inhabit are activated. It is the first site where intimacy is inscribed and the fundamental mediator of our relationships and representations.

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My friends and I collected love letters from our ex boyfriends. In the language and words we use, we reproduce inherited narratives about love and relationships, models we have learned and seen represented as possible ways of feeling. However, questioning these expressions opens the possibility of asking whether we are inhabiting an experience of our own or merely recreating what we have seen.

© Nathalie Guio - Breaking old narratives awakens a wider self, urging us to see our bonds and renew how we relate in a changing world.
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Breaking old narratives awakens a wider self, urging us to see our bonds and renew how we relate in a changing world.

© Nathalie Guio - Left overs of what it used to be.
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Left overs of what it used to be.

© Nathalie Guio - I took this photo with an Oktomat a plastic camera in my sister wedding.
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I took this photo with an Oktomat a plastic camera in my sister wedding.

© Nathalie Guio - My swimming suit is now part of Eros.
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My swimming suit is now part of Eros.

© Nathalie Guio - A photogram I made in the color darkroom. The form reveals itself once the light touches its layers.
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A photogram I made in the color darkroom. The form reveals itself once the light touches its layers.

© Nathalie Guio - The first embrodery my mom made when she was 7 years old.
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The first embrodery my mom made when she was 7 years old.

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My grandmother’s ring emerges as a symbol of family weaving and lineage. The narratives that shape us begin within our closest circle and extend upward through a genealogical tree that, whether we are aware of it or not, nourishes the stories we create. Recognizing this lineage is the first step in unraveling which parts of our identity truly belong to us and which are inherited.

© Nathalie Guio - Moon flower or the identity taking shape.
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Moon flower or the identity taking shape.

© Nathalie Guio - The drawing my baby niece gave me when I left home to live alone.
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The drawing my baby niece gave me when I left home to live alone.

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Through the poetic language of images and words, we can bridge inherited narratives with those we are beginning to imagine. This generational and organic revision shifts over time, shaped by collective awareness and by how we return to the historical archive we continually rewrite. In this cyclical movement, our ways of existing and relating also evolve.

Eros by Nathalie Guio

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