always love each other, never get married

When I was a younger, I discovered a white briefcase filled with photographs and fragments of my parents’ early life together, their youth, their wedding, their beginnings.

The briefcase was among other things meant to be thrown away. Once opened, I realised it contained the traces of a life before mine, and I instinctively tried to rescue something. I took a handful of images and hid them in a box beneath my dolls’ clothes.

A few days later, the briefcase disappeared and with it, the visible remains of my parents’ shared memories.

Over time, I began to revisit the rescued images, organising, reworking, and reanimating what had survived. In these photographs, I trace the sedimented layers of affection, silence, and disappearance that shaped my family’s story. The images have become both an archive and a site of erosion, where what was once vivid has faded, and yet continues to resurface.

Through this work, I attempt to reconstruct my parents’ story, not as a faithful restoration, but as an act of transformation. By layering fragments of the past with my own presence, I explore how memory accumulates, dissolves, and reconfigures over time how what is buried can still speak through its remains.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Mom and Dad, Belvedere Marittimo (CS), 1987.
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Mom and Dad, Belvedere Marittimo (CS), 1987.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Postcard: "At any time of the day I remember you with love".  From Dad to Mom.
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Postcard: "At any time of the day I remember you with love". From Dad to Mom.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Engagement party original photo re-processed on paper.
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Engagement party original photo re-processed on paper.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Revised wedding photo.
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Revised wedding photo.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.
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Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.
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Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.
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Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.
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Documents and photos from the honeymoon in Paris, 1988.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - New Year's Eve 1988 and lottery ticket revisited with colored pencils.
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New Year's Eve 1988 and lottery ticket revisited with colored pencils.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Mom pregnant with my brother Antonio. Bergamo, 1992.
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Mom pregnant with my brother Antonio. Bergamo, 1992.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Mom and Antonio shortly after his birth, 1992. Original photo revisited with colored pastels.
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Mom and Antonio shortly after his birth, 1992. Original photo revisited with colored pastels.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Greeting card for motherhood, a few months before my birth. 1996
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Greeting card for motherhood, a few months before my birth. 1996

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Mom pregnant with me and Antonio, 1997.
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Mom pregnant with me and Antonio, 1997.

© Maria Vittoria Desiato - Most recent photo of my parents found in the white briefcase.
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Most recent photo of my parents found in the white briefcase.

always love each other, never get married by Maria Vittoria Desiato

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